Just had a major epiphany

Did you ever have one of those moments in life when you realize you have been-gasp!-wrong?

I know its hard to believe, but, on occasion-not only do I figure out that I am wrong. But, I also admit it! Lol-others will probably disagree with the last statement!

Anyway- I just realized that I said that I didn't want my children to define me. Wow! That is a strong statement to make, don't ya think? The truth is that I DO want my children to be the definition of me-in every way possible! They are me-and a representation of me to the world. How they deal with life is a direct reflection of me as a parent(saying that as I struggle with Hayley's homework-aaaaargh!).

I can still be me and a mother-I just need to define what that means to me. Because there is no way I can see this and not cherish every minute of being a mom...